![]() ![]() It’s discrimination and they won’t have that there they said. The HR rep I talk to about this said it would be the same thing as telling a black employee they couldn’t use a certain restroom. Apparently people have been getting uncomfortable using the men’s restroom because of me and have been using a different restroom entirely and the supervisors tell them that Mo (that’s me) has every right to use the men’s restroom and they’ll have to get over it or go to another bathroom. Why don’t you drop your drawers and we’ll be the judge of which bathroom you can use? No one says that because that’s fucked up. I’m sorry I feel like I have to prove myself to people that want to fight with me on my own gender. I’m sorry I wasn’t born with a fully functioning penis like yours. –I shouldn’t have even tried to explain anything. Ya know, I’m on hormones and blah blah blah. I’ve talked to HR and all the supervisors know and gave me the okay. A few minutes later he walks up to me and apologises for offending me, but then proceeds to ask, But, technically, you’re a girl right? I mean, technically.? And I just had a look of disbelief on my face as I continued to work as he persisted and said, But, technically…? And so I said Technically it says female on my birth certificate but that is irrelevant now. So I left the restroom and went back to work. So anyways, he says to me, what you doing….? And I tell him that I’m washing my hands.and he says Just…in the men’s restroom.? And I turned and looked at him confused and said yea, ‘cause I’m a guy, with a tone that hinted that I had been offended. I wasn’t out to them when I first started working there because I was afraid of getting fired on that basis since I don’t believe I’m legally protected concerning my gender status. I’ve been out to my coworkers for 9 months. Everything was good until the end of the week when I was in there just washing my hands and this guy I work with strolls into the bathroom, sees me, and stops dead in his tracks. Always seek the advice of your qualified health care provider regarding any medical questions.Got the clearing to use the men’s restroom at work from HR and was able to start using them last week Monday. This information is not intended nor recommended as a substitute for medical advice. We only provide general information about medical transition, which may be misleading for your individual circumstances. The members of this subreddit do not act as medical professionals. Any in those categories should be well-marked with the relevant details and should not be advertisements in any way. The only allowed pics are surgery related and product review related. Check here for a history list of recurring threads sorted by new. Selfies, Selfie-similar pictures, graphical art, random pics of your cat and vocal range images may only be posted in the appropriate dedicated, recurring threads. Some highlights: mark NSFW items as NSFW, do not post illegal content, do not create a new account to avoid a ban. ![]() ![]() If you edit content in a significant way, specify where you edited it. Users fundraising may post in our monthly Fundraiser thread.įlair your posts Do not use the flairs "ModPost" or "Recurring" as they are reserved. Users selling items or relevant need at reasonable prices or users soliciting free/lost cost items may post in our monthly Buy/Sell/Trade/Giveaway thread. We also are currently not accepting any research requests. Exercise caution when sharing personal information - this is a public subreddit.īusiness advertisements are prohibited. Trolling includes posts or comments meant to elicit controversy or drama.ĭo not post information or photos of another person without their permission. No trolling and no reposting of trolling and/or transphobic content. This includes personal and general judgments about weight, surgeries, and appearance. ![]() Among other things, this includes differences of identity, experiences of having or not having gender dysphoria, experiences of transition, and the choice to be out or stealth. If you criticize, make it constructive criticism. Absolutely no personal attacks, insults, or threats. FILTERING LINKSīe polite and practice mutual respect. It contains advice on questioning, coming out, passing, testosterone, surgery, legal proceedings and more and contains various other resources and items of interest.Īnother good place to look for a wealth of information is the ftm LiveJournal community. Welcome to /r/ftm, a support-based community. ![]()
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